Until thought is linked with purpose, there is no intelligentIS YOUR LIFE ON PURPOSE? by W. Bradford Swift
accomplishment. With the majority, the bark of thought is allowed to drift
upon the ocean of life. A man or woman should conceive of a legitimate
purpose in his heart, and set out to accomplish it. James Allen
Is you life on purpose? Does just the question stop you in your tracks as it
does many people? Have you been so caught up in the frenetic pace of
today’s consumeristic culture that you’ve not dared wonder if your life is
going in the right direction?
Perhaps you feel a little like Alice in Wonderland when she was taken on a
wild ride through the countryside by the Red Queen? No matter how fast
Alice ran she couldn’t seem to get anywhere. Finally, breathless from her
efforts, the Queen allowed her to rest long enough for Alice to comment that
"Everything is just as it was!" to which the Queen replied, "...here, you
see, it takes all the running you can do, to keep in the same place. If you
want to get somewhere else, you must run at least twice as fast as that!"
If this sounds like one of your typical days or weeks, or your whole life
for that matter, then it’s times to jump from the not so merry-go-round and
re-evaluate a few of your priorities. Responding to the following
statements will give you a good starting point. Grade yourself on a scale
from 1 to 10.
1. I am crystal clear what my life purpose is.
Disagree 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Agree
Of course, to live a life on purpose starts with knowing what your purpose
is. If you aren’t sure, then that’s where to start. Don’t feel bad if you
aren’t clear. According to Cynthia Kersey in her book, Unstoppable
(http://www.unstoppable.net), when psychologist, William Marsten, asked
3,000 people the question, “What have you to live for?” 94 percent said they
had no definite purpose for their lives -- 94 percent! That leaves only 6
percent of us who know why we’re here. No wonder we’re not a particularly
happy society.
2. The life I lead is a full expression of my life purpose.
Disagree 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Agree
Knowing your purpose is really only the start. About a quarter of the
people who request my services as a life purpose coach feel they know their
purpose but also realize that their life doesn’t reflect it. In other
words, they aren’t living true to it.
3. I live a values-based life rather than a materialistic-based life.
Disagree 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Agree
Many Americans have sold out their values for the Great American Dream
forced down our throats by Madison Avenue advertising. Luckily, we’re
starting to realize the dream is actually a nightmare, but with hundreds of
exposures to advertising every week, living a value-based life can make you
feel like a salmon swimming up stream.
4. My life is free of unnecessary clutter and complexities and I seldom feel
overwhelmed, rushed or cluttered.
Disagree 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Agree
More people give themselves a lower rating with this statement than anywhere
else. It appears many of other or choking on our own clutter. If you don’t
believe it, look around your own neighborhood. How many new self-storage
businesses have opened up in the last five years. In the small mountain
community where I live there’s been at least two new ones, and their
businesses are flourishing.
5. I regularly take time to nurture myself in ways that feed my soul.
Disagree 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Agree
A big issue for many people. Some of my clients are so driven that the
concept of taking even 15 minutes for themselves to just sit and do nothing
but breath and relax is almost inconceivable. Taking an entire evening to
just nurture oneself is beyond comprehension for most.
How did you do on the sample test? Or did you feel you didn’t have the time
to take it right now because you need to get on to more important stuff.
Wake up Alice! Nothing is more important than identifying your purpose and
living true to it. It’s just so easy to drift through life like a cork
thrown by the currents of circumstances, back and forth, living what Thoreau
describes as “lives of quiet desperation.”
The good news is that it’s not too late. It is possible to start living on
purpose immediately, even before you clearly know your purpose. Because
even asking the questions, “who am I and what is my life for?” begins to
shape your life into a new direction. It all starts when you ask the
questions. “Seek and you will find. Ask and it will be given unto you.”
Start asking today. For a more in depth, FREE evaluation of how on purpose
your life is, take the Life On Purpose Self Test at
http://www.lifeonpurpose.com and earn a complimentary life purpose coaching
session.
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Again, remember to join us Wednesday Sept. 21, 2011 as Brad helps you personally get a handle on your own life purpose and how to live it. The call-in information will follow shortly.
~ Dr. Symeon Rodger
